
Hattie Mae Love's puzzling absence from Madea's Destination Wedding has left fans scratching their heads, especially in light of past comments actress Patrice Lovely made hinting at her return. As one of the franchise's most beloved and comedic characters, Hattie was expected to be part of Madea's latest adventure, making her exclusion all the more surprising.
Madea's Destination Wedding may have brought back many familiar faces, but one fan-favorite character was notably absent: Hattie Mae Love.
As Tyler Perry returned to Netflix for his thirteenth Madea film, released on July 11, viewers expected Lovely's wildly animated and sharp-tongued Hattie to once again stir things up alongside Madea, Aunt Bam, and Mr. Brown. Instead, the movie moved forward without her, leaving many fans wondering why.
Why Isn't Hattie In Madea's Destination Wedding?
Patrice Lovely last appeared as Hattie in A Madea Family Funeral, which premiered in 2019 and was believed at the time to be the franchise's final film. Not long after its release, Lovely gave fans hope that Hattie's time in the Madea universe wasn't over.
Lovely reassured fans that Hattie's story was far from over, telling MadameNoire in 2019 "She ain't going down like that:"
"Well, Hattie has a lot going on. She has things that she's venturing into, and I (would) just encourage everyone to stay tuned. Don't think cause Madea going to sleep, Hattie gonna be asleep. No, no, no... No, ma'am. She ain't going down like that."

Those words now stand in stark contrast to her unexplained absence from Madea's Destination Wedding. Unlike previous installments that featured her prominently, this newest outing didn't even mention Hattie's whereabouts.
Despite the growing speculation, Lovely has not publicly commented on her exclusion from the film. Fans have taken to her Instagram, leaving comments on recent posts asking why she wasn't included in Destination Wedding, but she has yet to respond.
Given her enthusiastic remarks about returning to the role back in 2019, it appears that her absence may have been a creative decision rather than a personal one. Tyler Perry has made no public statement addressing the casting change, but with several key characters reprising their roles, including Cassi Davis Patton as Aunt Bam and David Mann as Mr. Brown, the choice to leave out Hattie feels all the more glaring.
Prior to Destination Wedding, Perry's STRAW, released on June 6, aims to deliver a more emotionally resonant story. It was backed by a powerhouse cast including Taraji P. Henson, Teyana Taylor, and Sherri Shepherd.
Lovely is best known for playing the hilarious Hattie in Love Thy Neighbor and several Madea films, including Boo! A Madea Halloween, Boo 2!, and A Madea Family Funeral. Beyond the Madea universe, she rose to prominence through her work with the UniverSoul Circus, a single-ring, Atlanta-based circus founded in 1994. Lovely later transitioned to stage plays, starring in several of Perry's productions.
As Perry continues evolving the Madea franchise on Netflix, only time will tell if Hattie Mae will return or remain a mystery in Madea's ever-expanding cinematic universe. While fans debate her absence in Madea's Destination Wedding, it's clear the Madea brand still holds a powerful place in Perry's growing empire.
For a deeper dive into how the Madea movies stack up alongside Perry's many other projects, check out our full ranking of every Tyler Perry film and series, from the most acclaimed.